Thursday, March 25, 2010

Four Boyfriends...

THIS TURNED OUT TO BE SO DIFFERENT FROM WHAT I THOUGHT IT WAS GOING TO BE..IT IS A WONDERFUL WONDERFUL MESSAGE .....ENJOY

Once upon a time there was a girl who had four boyfriends.



She loved the fourth boyfriend the most and adorned him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of
delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.


She also loved the third boyfriend very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.



She also loved her second boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult
times.


The girl's first boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him!



One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, 'I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.'



Thus, she asked the fourth boyfriend, 'I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'



'No way!', replied the fourth boyfriend, and he walked away without another word.



His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart..



The sad girl then asked the third boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'



'No!', replied the third boyfriend. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!'



Her heart sank and turned cold.



She then asked the second boyfriend, 'I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'



'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', replied the second boyfriend.. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'




His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated.



Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go.'



The girl looked up, and there was her first boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.




Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!'



In truth, you have four boyfriends in your lives:



Your fourth boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.



Your third boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth.When you die, it will all go to others.



Your second boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.



And your first boyfriend is your spirit. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.



However, your spirit is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you to the throne of God and continue with you throughout Eternity.


Thursday, March 11, 2010

THE W I T C H

This is very interesting..........(to women)
take time to ponder.........(to men) enjoy the story.

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom.. The monarch could havekilled him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals.So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a yearto figure out the answer and, If after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death. The question was: What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, He accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.
He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: The princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. Many people advised him to consult the old witch, For only she would have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.
The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first.
The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, The most noble of the Knights of the Round Table, And Arthur's closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunch-backed and hideous, had only one tooth, Smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc.He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden,But Lancelot, having learnt of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life. And the reservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered. Arthur's question thus: 'What a woman really wants?' She said, 'Is to be in charge of her own life.'

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth.And that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was. The neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom.And Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.The honeymoon hour approached and, Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom.But, what a sight awaited him.The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed.The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, She would henceforth be her horrible and deformed self only half the time. And the beautiful maiden the other half.

'Which would you prefer? She asked him. 'Beautiful during the day .... or at night?' Lancelot pondered the predicament.During the day he could have a beautiful woman to show off to his friends,But at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch! Or, Would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day?But by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate moments with?

(If you are a man reading this...) What would YOUR choice be?
(If you are a woman reading this) What would YOUR MAN'S choice be?What Lancelot chose, is given below:

BUT.... make YOUR choice before you scroll down below... OKAY?




!!!!!!!!!!!!Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the witch gave Arthur to his question,He said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time..Because, he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.Now... what is the moral to this story?

The moral is...
1) There is a witch in every woman no matter how beautiful she is!
2) If you don't let a woman have her own way, things are going to get ugly.

So, always remember:
IT'S EITHER 'HER WAY' OR IT'S 'NO WAY’!!!